Gentleman – so many of you are asking, so I’ve compiled this question into 5 simple checklists.
How do I know if personal matchmaking is for me?
How matchmaking works best, for whom, and why.
Matchmaking works best for those who can say that the following applies to them.
1. Your abilities to have a meaningful, healthy relationship are intact. You desire to be in a relationship because you have done the appropriate work on yourself as an individual FIRST. You simply desire a relationship to now add something to your already fulfilled life, with the right person.
Too many times, people make the mistake of seeking a relationship because they want to fill a void or emptiness they feel. No one can fill that for you, and until you discover who you are as a single individual, any relationship you find yourself in will be unsuccessful. So do the work first, and ask yourself your reasoning for desiring a serious relationship at this point in time.
If you have everything in your life that makes you happy in all other areas, and the one thing missing is that perfect partner/serious relationship – well, then I’m your matchmaker.
2. You work incredibly long hours in a demanding career. You travel often for work.
Enough said. Believe me, I get it. Likely, I will end up being your best friend shortly after a brief time of working with you. Making your life easier, is my job. Not only is it my job, but I do it EXTREMELY well;).
3. You find yourself meeting the same people over and over again (either at the gym, people from work, or bad set ups through friends or the same social circles).
That ‘oh sooo important’ rule of not dating anyone at work or the gym can be casually tossed aside during a moment of weakness. Heck, it can’t hurt to bend the rules, just this once… can it? Just this time anyway, it will probably be fine … or not.
Matchmaking is perfect for those who want to expand their limited parameters of the dating pool but don’t have time to do it themselves. Who wouldn’t want someone to double or triple their chances of meeting the right person by exposing them to new and eligible singles outside of their social circle?! After all, it is my full time job to connect great people from all over the city – my job is to find those ‘needles in a haystack’ women daily; I do it effectively moreso than any matchmaker out there so wouldn’t it be nice if you didn’t have to worry about that part? Leave your gym as your sanctuary and choose a drama-free workplace by considering using a matchmaker who knows what she’s doing and is well-connected into the very top of the female dating pool.
4. You go on dates all the time, just not the right ones. You socialize and always attempt to meet new people when you are out. However, most of your time is wasted on dates that turn into duds. And Online dating is hit-or-miss, even downright scary sometimes with who actually ends up showing up!
You, my friend, are the ideal candidate to potentially work with me. I screen everything about a person beforehand, which includes what they look like in person, their true personality, to individual quirks (that you may or may not like about them, btw); there are no surprises! And they are narrowed down and selected perfectly to YOU and YOUR requirements/tastes. Let the most scrutinizing person besides yourself (me) screen and vet for your dates before you choose them. Your time is way too valuable to keep wasting on ‘shot in the dark’ dates that haven’t been panning out.
It’s all about not wasting time. You are pretty much guaranteed to triple your success in dating simply by adding the value of having a TOUGH SCREENER for each and every candidate who is being considered for you.
5. Your friends and family offer to set you up, but you value your friendships and want to continue speaking to your family.
Such good intentions come from those close to you, who always seem to know someone perfect for you! The only problem with that, is they lack my social network as far as numbers go – I’m on cable networks every week, have heavy exposure in media, press coverage, and am enlisted by top women’s magazines for a variety of commentary topics that are continuous throughout the year.
Secondly, I can be subjective. Too often family or friends will be rooting to pair two people together who probably aren’t for each other, yet, wouldn’t it just be sweet as pie if both of you were a couple?! Often times, they mean well but… that’s why I’m the matchmaker, and well, they do.. fill in the blank.
If you are nodding your head to the above four items, and are an intelligent, driven, eligible guy; then you my friend, are the perfect ‘match’ for me and the type of guy who makes my ongoing list of success stories.
